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Thank you everyone for your support. And I do have an update for the situation as well.

I took the kids to Clearwater on Friday night and crashed at his place for the night. We didn't talk about our marriage because I went out to my usual hang out and was hit on left and right. It was really weird but it was funny too. But that's not the point of this update. I got fed up with it and went back to my husband's to crash for the evening.

Saturday morning I wake up to a cup of coffee. He was so sweet to get up early and go get me a cup of coffee. He knows I don't operate very well without it. We just kind of hung out for a little bit and when the kids finally woke up we all went and got some breakfast... and more coffee! lol We had a very nice breakfast together as a family. After breakfast we went back to his place and then we sat down and talked.

He said that he wants to work on our marriage BUT... and that's when I started to get concerned. But the but wasn't so bad. The but was, and actually there were a couple, that if I leave him again there will be no more chances. He said that I would be served with divorce papers within a week of leaving. Ok no big deal. I can understand where he is coming from because this is the second time this has happened. And the other but was that I will not be moving back in right away... for two reasons. The first reason being that we do not want to pull my daughter out of school again. There is only three weeks left and she has been put through enough with pulling her out before. And the other reason is that he has a room mate now and he is staying in my son's room so there really isn't room for all of us. So he is going to finish up his lease, the lease ends in August, and then we will look for a place and he will be getting rid of his room mate. Plus, we also figured that this would give us more time to work out our issues. So by the time the kids and I move back up there we will have been seperated for 8 months. Who knows, maybe this will actually help us out in the long run.

I do think that this is for the best. The both of us think that this can work out if we both try. We agreed to keep our communication lines open this time. And I will be in charge of the finances so we are not in this same situation again. And today when he brings the kids back I am going to talk to him about marriage counseling, see what he thinks about it. We can go to my church and get the counseling for free.

But anyway, this is what's happening and of course I will keep everyone updated.

Thanks Crksgirl! Make sure you continue to send good vibes my way too! lol